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50 Way Love Match Matrix
Finding “the one” is hard. Filling this out shouldn’t be. Let us find your match! Take a little time out your day to answer these questions. Answer honestly.
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Name
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First Name
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Email
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When is your birthday?
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Occupation
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Location
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Do you have kids?
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How many?
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Want kids/more kids?
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Do you smoke?
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What is your non-negotiable in a partner?
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I love getting a sweet text or a "thinking of you" note.
I’m a big fan of a good hug.
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I love just sitting and talking, one-on-one.
I feel most cared for when someone steps in to help me with something.
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I love it when someone surprises me with a little gift.
I really value just hanging out and catching up.
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It means a lot when someone goes out of their way to do a favor for me.
I feel most connected through physical touch.
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I love it when someone I care about puts their arm around me or I put my arm around them.
I feel special when I’m given a thoughtful gift.
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I’m happiest when we’re out doing something fun together.
I love holding hands when we’re walking or sitting together.
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Having a physical token of someone’s love means a lot to me.
Hearing someone tell me they appreciate me makes my day.
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I like being physically close to the people I’m with.
I love it when someone gives me a genuine compliment.
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Just having some "us time" is my favorite thing.
I love those "just because" little gifts.
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Knowing someone accepts me for who I am is huge.
I know someone cares when they actually show up and help me.
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I love doing things together, even if it’s just running errands.
Kind words and encouragement mean the world to me.
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Actions definitely speak louder than words for me.
A hug makes me feel safe and valued.
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I really value praise and take it to heart.
Little, thoughtful gifts mean more to me than one big expensive thing.
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I feel closest to someone when we’re actually engaged in a conversation.
I feel a lot closer to people when there’s a lot of physical affection.
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I love it when people notice and comment on what I’ve accomplished.
It means so much when someone helps me with a chore they know I hate.
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I love a little touch on the arm or shoulder as someone walks by.
I feel loved when someone really listens to me without distractions.
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I feel cared for when friends help me tackle a project.
Getting a gift, even a small one, really brightens my mood.
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I love it when someone tells me I look good.
I feel loved when someone takes the time to really understand me.
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I love when my significant other sits close to me.
Someone doing a task for me makes me feel very looked after.
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I appreciate all the little things people do to make my life easier.
I love gifts that someone clearly put effort into making or picking.
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I love it when I have someone’s full, undivided attention.
I really value when someone takes a load off my plate by doing a task.
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I love a thoughtful birthday gift.
A meaningful birthday card or toast means more than any object.
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A gift tells me that you were thinking about me while we were apart.
Helping me with my "to-do" list is the best way to show you care.
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I love it when someone just listens without interrupting or trying to "fix" it.
I love it when someone remembers a special day with a little something.
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I like knowing people have my back when things get busy.
I love going on trips or adventures with someone special.
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I’m big on kisses and physical affection.
I love getting a gift for no reason at all.
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I just need to hear that I’m appreciated.
I love it when someone looks me in the eye when we’re talking.
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A gift from a loved one is always something I’ll cherish.
It feels good just to have that physical connection.
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I feel loved when someone jumps in to help with a task I asked for.
I feel loved when someone tells me how much they need me in their life.
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I’m a touch-oriented person; I need that physical connection daily.
I love when my significant other speaks life into me.
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Love Language Score
Words of Affirmation: 1 | Quality Time: 10 | Receiving Gifts: 100 | Acts of Service: 1,000 | Physical Touch: 10,000
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Physical Touch%
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Physical Touch
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Acts of Service%
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Acts of Service
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Gifts%
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Gifts
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Quality Time%
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Quality Time
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Words of Affirmation%
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Words of Affirmation
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1. When things get really close and personal...
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I feel comfortable and safe. S
I start to feel a bit trapped or nervous. (Fearful-avoidant) DA
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2. If my partner is having a bad day...
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I’m happy to be their rock and listen. S
I worry I’m doing something wrong. AP
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3. When I want to see someone I'm dating...
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I just ask them to hang out. S
I wait for them to ask me so I don't look "desperate." AP
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4. My "perfect" level of independence is...
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Doing things together, but having our own lives. S
Having lots of space; I hate feeling "checked on." DA
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5. When someone doesn't text back for a few hours...
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I assume they're busy and go about my day. S
My mind goes to the worst-case scenario. AP
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6. Sharing my deepest secrets is...
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Easy once I know I can trust the person. S
Really hard; I prefer to keep things light. (Fearful Avoidant)
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7. If a partner asks for a "serious talk"...
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I’m open to it; I want to resolve things. S
I immediately want to run the other way. DA
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8. In a relationship, I often worry that...
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My partner will lose interest in me. AP
My partner will try to change who I am. DA
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9. When I'm stressed out...
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I lean on my partner for support. S
I prefer to deal with it completely alone. DA
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10. I would describe myself as...
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Generally confident and worthy of love. S
Often doubting if I'm "enough" for someone. (Fearful Avoidant) AP
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11. Being "single" feels like...
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A fine phase of life, but I'm ready for a partner. S
A relief because no one is making demands on me. DA
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12. If a partner gets "clingy" or very affectionate...
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I love it; the more the better! AP
I start to pull away or feel annoyed. DA
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13. When we have a disagreement...
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I try to see their side and find a middle ground. S
I get defensive or shut down the conversation. DA
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14. If I really like someone...
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I tell them directly how I feel. S
I play it cool so I don't get hurt. (Fearful Avoidant) AP
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15. My biggest fear in a relationship is...
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Being abandoned or left alone. AP
Losing my sense of self or my freedom. DA
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16. Showing "weakness" or crying in front of a partner...
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Is a natural part of being close to someone. S
Is something I try to avoid at all costs. (Fearful) DA
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17. I find that the people I date...
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Are generally good and reliable. S
Often let me down or don't meet my needs. (FA AP
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18. When a partner wants to spend every night together...
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I might need to set a boundary for some "me time." S
I love it; I need to be reassured constantly. AP
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19. If someone I like pulls away...
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I ask them what's up so we can fix it. S
I pull away even harder to protect myself. FA
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20. Deep down, I feel like...
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Love is easy and I deserve a good partner. S
Love is hard and I'm always the one trying more. AP
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Attachment Style
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Secure
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Anxious-Preoccupied
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Dismissive-Avoidant
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Fearful-Avoidant
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What does a “perfect Saturday” look like for you?
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Are you a ‘plan every detail’ traveler or a ‘let’s just see where the day takes us’ traveler?
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On a scale of 1-10, how much do you value “alone time” in a relationship
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What is your favorite way to decompress after a long work week?
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Social Battery: At a party, are you the one holding court in the center of the room, or having a deep 1-on-1 conversation on the balcony?
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I’m the life of the party!
I like to keep to myself in my own bubble
I like to make my way around the room to get to know everyone
I’ll have a 1-on-1 conversation on the balcony
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Conflict Style: When something bothers you, do you talk it out immediately or need space to process
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Leave me the hell alone
No babe, let’s work it out
Give me a second and then we can talk it out
Let’s forget it ever happened and brush it under the rug
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Wildcard: What’s one thing you’re genuinely passionate about right now? (Business, hobby, coffee order, or anything!)
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